Tuesday, September 4, 2012

Timothy's Surgery August 22nd 2012


Wednesday August 22nd
Everything is going as planned.  The epidural was successful and that was really good news.  It is long and tedious surgery and hope to be done by 5pm.  Everything so far is going well or normal. 

We just saw the doctor.  He is still in recovery, but things went well.  They left the nuss bars in and his sternum was so crocked it took them awhile to flatten it.  She said it looked like a ski jump.  She said it looks really good and everything went well.  He will be in the hospital for 5-7 days and I am still waiting to see him.  It was 6 plus hrs of surgery.   A very long day and we aren't done.  

Timothy is finally sleeping.  After the surgery he wasn't breathing well enough, so he ended up in the ICU.  They thought it was the epidural, so they stopped that and their goal was to sedate him while the tube was in and hope he would get some sleep.  It took awhile to get that to work and convince him he would be ok and that he could breath even with the tube in.  I had the same problem after my surgery, so it has been hard for me to watch him suffer.  They seemed to have found something that is working.  I hope he will sleep now.  Thanks for all your kindness and prayers in our behalf.  It has really helped me get thru this day.

 It was a busy night and morning.  It was hard with the tube in his throat, it hurt and he couldn't talk.  At times he would try to write on a white board, but it was really hard to interpret.  This morning the tube came out and he was very happy to be understood again and less charades.  Then the pain management was on.  We were failing.  The epidural wasn't working, so out it came.  Now things seem to be stabilizing and he was even smiling at times and being his normal funny self on drugs.  It will be up and down for the next couple of days.  If all goes well he should be out of ICU sometime today.  He just got his first slushy and will be trying to keep food down today.  

Thursday August 23rd
 Timothy is doing much better today.  The surgery went very well, but long -8 hours.  As he came out, he was having trouble breathing, so they moved him to the ICU and left his breathing tube in over night.  It is now out and he is doing much better.

A little set back this afternoon will keep us in the ICU another night.  A combination of drugs took him to a point where he stopped breathing.  Fortunately I thought he was making an unusual noise while breathing about 5 minutes before and had a nurse listening to him when he stopped.  She pushed "the button" and within 15 seconds there were more than 12 people in the room and within a couple minutes there where more than 20 including the portable x-ray guy.  It took several minutes before he opened his eyes (and then panicked and fought us) but within 15 minutes he was breathing without assistance.  Scared me good and confused him a lot. 

That was two hours ago.  He is doing much better now.  Our project for the evening is to move up from clear liquids to crackers and other liquids (tomato soup and goldfish are coming for dinner.

A much better evening.  Timothy is keeping food down and we got him out of bed tonight.

My father came up and gave me a blessing and we gave Timothy a blessing, so we all, including Tresa, feel better.  David

Friday August 24th
We had a good night.  Several good blocks of sleep.  We are going to work on solid foods today and switching all of the meds to oral.  Timothy is in good spirits as am I.  David

He had a good morning and around 3pm his headache was really bad and he threw up and again at 4pm.  They have tried a lot of stuff, but his headache is still rather bad.  We are now out of the ICU and upstairs in room 3077.  It is quiet and the room is darker, so hopefully that will help his headache.  He is finally sleeping.  I hope that sleep will help and tomorrow will be a better day.  I think his spirits are down, because nothing has really helped his headache.  

Saturday August 25th
He had a bad headache last night, but the room was quite and there were less interruptions. He didn't think he got very much sleep, but there were a couple two hour stretches that really helped.  This morning the headache was better.  He is eating and went on a short walk and making fun of his mom. ( I couldn't get the movie to work and don't do the x box controllers very well).

Bro Larson took over for me while David works.  I hope he survives.  I left him watching X-men with Timothy.  Overall he is doing a lot better.  He still has a fever, so they took blood to rule out an infection.  He will also have an X-ray today and see if the chest tube is ready to come out.  I am not sure about the other drain tubes, I think they will be longer.  His overall pain has been better, just a lot of set backs.  We hope to keep moving forward today.  Thanks for all your support.  

Erin and Grandma came up to be with Timothy, while David was at work.  They did a great job, but he did miss David and me.

I am finally back at the hospital.  I worked 25 of the 32 hours I was away (my company moved from Orem to Lehi this weekend...) but I have returned to find Timothy asleep and doing well.  He has been eating and walking and generally doing well.  We still have a couple of milestones before he goes home.  He needs three drainage tubes out and, of course, must poop!

Thanks to those who helped today and we appreciated all of your love and prayers.

David

Oh, and who is the MVP of the Rice Invitational?  Jennifer Hamson!

Sunday August 26th
We went to church in the morning and Sara and Heather sang in the Choir.  Then we listened to Heather give her  8th article of faith in primary and then off to the Hospital we went.  It was quite an crowd when we got there.  I had Heather, Sara, Alan and Grandpa and Jennifer was on her way.  It as a quite day.  We were waiting on x-rays to see if he was coming home.  We watched movies with Timothy and visited and then watched more movies while he was sleeping.  Then at 7pm we found out that he could come home.  We scrambled to get everything ready with the bed and oxygen and packed everything up.  It was nice to have Jennifer around to help.  She drove Timothy home and I finished packing and followed in the little car.  It was about 10pm when we were all settled, but it was great to home.

Tuesday August 28th
One final report:

Timothy has been home for two nights.  We all are getting much better
sleep.  Timothy is doing very well.  The pain level, especially when
compared to the March surgery, is much lower and easier to manage.  He
is wandering the house, feeding him self and generally doing very
well.  We expect to have him back in school (2-3 classes a day) next
week.  Once he got a couple of days past the anesthesia and now with a
couple of full nights sleep, he has clearly turned the corner as they
say.

Thanks for all of your prayers, love and support.  They are important
to us and help us.
David

Timothy is doing great.  He went for a 15 min walk, washed his hair and he took a 3 hr nap.  He says he doesn't need a nap, but he is still healing.  The pain is so different and the Oxycontin is not used very much at all.  We are so thankful for that and once the tubes are out I am sure it will be even better.  I  think I am going to have more of a slow him down problem with this surgery.  His chest has to be treated like a broken bone, so for 6-8 week he can't be bumped or things thrown at him etc.  He can walk and on Friday I will find out more about what he can or can't do.  Thanks for all your love and support.  I just need a couple more good night of sleep and I should be back to normal.   
Tresa





After Surgery in ICU


Going to get his Chest  x-ray

At home, but still has his tubes in.








Friday, August 24, 2012

Get Away July 2012

 David on top of the Crater

 The balls are where the divers come up and the square marks how deep they are.

 We soaked in the Crater.  It was very nice.  The temperature of the water was around 96 or more and mineral in the water felt really smooth.  While we were there scuba divers were practicing.  It was a lot of fun.
Dinner at the Roof Restaurant 

Dinner with a view

Had a good time, but nothing went as planned. The jet skies we rented, the people that rented them the day before wrecked them and they couldn't fix them by Thursday.  The hotel room we reserved, had a problem and we had to choose another room.  The rooms had themes and it was very unique, so that was a bummer.  We had plans to go to the Salt Lake temple, got ready and it was closed for cleaning.  We didn't go by our original plans but swam in the crater and enjoyed being with each other.  It is always nice to get away and remember what it is like to be with each other without distractions.

Wednesday, August 22, 2012

Sara's Birthday May 26th 2012

At the party they played games, tie-dyed shirts and swam.  It was a little crazy at times, but they all had a good time.
 The donut game

 Sara's favorite game or she just likes donuts

 Cute Sara

 Present time

 Fun in the Spa



 
At the family birthday party she got a phone, a hat from Jennifer, bear and of course socks and underwear.  She even had some earrings in a box and later I took her to get her ears pierced.

Happy Birthday Sara.  

Heather's Field days May 25th 2012

Field days happen's at the end of the school year.  It is a day of fun games and activities.  They also have snacks and candy they can buy.  It is just a fun day for the kids.  I try to go when I can and Heather is a lot of fun to watch.

 Heather with her ribbon after the mile run.

 Heather is really fast and had a great time doing the different relays.

 Heather is waiting for the handoff, from the look on her face, someone isn't going fast enough.

 Heather and the Barney Family


 Heather and Mea Fisher

Cute girls

Sunday, July 22, 2012

Alan's Graduation May 29th 2012

For Alan's Graduation we went to dinner as a family to the Texas Roadhouse.  It was good food and some of us got what we ordered.  For his graduation, he went with friend to Zions and did some hiking and hanging out in the pool.  They had a good time and they all came back in one piece.  That made the parents very happy.

Alan is growing up to be a good kid and is working right now and will have back surgery on Oct 8th 2012 and will go on a mission sometime in May.  After that he hopes to play basketball somewhere.



 Proud Mom

 Alan and Dad


 Those two are so cute and have really grown to become close friends.  They are both good to lift the other up, when times are hard.  It is fun to watch them both. 

April 9th, 2012 Timothy's Birthday



Timothy had a family party and he got a few things like, socks, underwear, deodorant and  then the big item.  An ipod touch.  He didn't have his friends party until he was feeling better.  He had the friends pool party the first week in June.

Easter April 8th 2012


Getting ready for the Easter egg hunt.


Sara found one.


David

 Heather

 Timothy three weeks after surgery

 Sara trying out the bubbles.

 Alan shooting people with rockets.  

 Boy, that girl likes to jump.  



 Erin's turn to do the rocket.

Heather is complaining that she is short and doesn't have a chance of catching the rocket.

BYU women's basketball beat Gonzaga March 5th 2012

This was a very exciting game and one of the highlights of the year.  The team played great and they made it to the NCAA tournament.  Way to go Girls.  Very proud of Jennifer and how she continues to play very consistent.  She is a very talented and wonderful girl.  We love her very Much.  Go Cougars!


BYU holds off No. 23 Gonzaga

Cougars will make first tournament appearance since 2007
Last Updated - March 5, 2012 10:41 GMT
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BYU won its first West Coast championship after defeating No. 23 Gonzaga 78-66 on Monday.
LAS VEGAS – Dani Peterson scored a career-high 18 points and grabbed 12 rebounds to help Brigham Young beat three-time defending champion Gonzaga 78-66 for the West Coast Conference tournament title on Monday.
The Cougars (26-6) won their first WCC tournament after 12 years in the Mountain West Conference. The victory earned them an automatic bid for their first NCAA tournament appearance since 2007.
Sophomore Haiden Palmer led No. 23 Gonzaga (26-5) with a career-high 28 points. Kayla Standish added 18.
Tournament MVP Haley Steed and reserve Jennifer Hamson had 17 points apiece for BYU, which outrebounded the Bulldogs 36-21.
The teams split their regular-season series, with BYU winning 70-40 in Provo, Utah, on Feb. 9 and Gonzaga rolling to a 77-60 victory on Feb. 25. But Gonzaga had owned the WCC tournament.
The top-seeded Bulldogs were playing in a record sixth consecutive championship and seeking to become the first team to win four straight WCC women’s tournament titles.
BYU grabbed control by turning up its defense in the second half, holding Gonzaga to 34.4 percent shooting after the break.
Hamson’s 17 points came on 7-of-11 shooting, while Peterson made 8 of 10.
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Steed went 3 for 4 from beyond the arc as the Cougars went 7 for 14 from 3-point range.
Standish was 6 for 16 from the field. Katelan Redmon fared even worse, going 3 of 11.
The first half was a series of runs.
Gonzaga put together a 9-0 surge, holding BYU scoreless for more than 4 minutes, to build a 32-24 lead with 5:09 remaining.
Palmer fueled the run with five straight points. The sophomore made her first seven shots from the field, including a pair of 3-pointers, and finished the first half with 16 points.
The Cougars fought back a third time behind freshman Lexi Eaton, Kristen Riley and Steed, outscoring Gonzaga 12-3 over the final five minutes of the half.
BYU led despite committing 11 first-half turnovers that led to 13 Gonzaga points.

Jennifer holding the trophey after the game.

Jennifers Dentist Dr Gifford was at the Gonzaga game and sent her flowers.
(Paul Fraughton | The Salt Lake Tribune) . BYU's women's basketball team reacts to the announcement that they were selected as a number 10 seed to play DePaul in the Des Moines Region of the NCAA Basketball Tournament. Monday, March 12, 2012
BYU women: Cougars draw No. 10 seed, will play DePaul
BYU, delighted by its seeding, will face DePaul in the first round.
First Published Mar 12 2012 06:18 pm • Last Updated Mar 13 2012 07:55 am
Provo • The BYU women’s basketball team knew it was going to be called — only no one knew when.
The players sat front and center in the BYUtv auditorium, watching the names tick out two by two on the theater-size screen. The Cougars wanted to know where they’d be in the Big Dance, and the buzz grew louder and more excitable as 60 teams flashed by.
     
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No. 10 BYU vs. No. 7 DePaul
Tipoff » Saturday, 4:30 p.m. MDT
Location » All-State Arena, Rosemont, Ill.
The set-up » The Cougars aim for a first-round upset in their first NCAA Tournament bid since 2007.
Fun fact » BYU last played DePaul in the postseason in a 1982 WNIT appearace, beating the Blue Demons 72-69 in the first round.
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Finally, the crowd of more than 100 players, coaches, family and fans got their chance to stand and cheer as their long-awaited destination was revealed: BYU earned a No. 10 seed in the NCAA Tournament and will face No. 7-seeded DePaul at 4:30 p.m. MDT Saturday in Chicago.
The Cougars stood up, cheering and clapping at their good fortune — and it grew even louder as images of themselves celebrating flashed on national TV.
"We’re excited, even though it wasn’t where we expected to be," senior guard Haley Steed said. "We all started to sweat a little bit, get a little nervous in there. … I’m pleasantly surprised with a 10 seed and really excited."
It was a big moment for a BYU (26-6) program that secured its first NCAA berth since 2007 by winning the West Coast Conference Tournament, but still had to wait to figure out its first-round destination. BYU’s contest with DePaul (22-10) was the second-to-last game announced on the ESPN Selection Show.
Most of the team had been expecting an 11 or 12 seed, but the surprise of a 10 seed was an added bonus of making the field.
Being on the selection show itself might’ve been the real treat.
"I had butterflies the whole time," freshman guard Lexi Eaton said. "I’ve always just watched it on TV. To be a part of it is crazy."
The Cougars will compete in the Des Moines region with No. 1 seed Baylor and No. 2 seed Tennessee — two powerhouses in women’s basketball. With a win, BYU could face the Volunteers in the second round.  The Blue Demons will also be enjoying what is essentially a home game: Although the women’s team competes in a different facility, the All-State Arena is the men’s home court.But the focus was on the Blue Demons, the Cougars’ Big East opponent in Saturday’s contest. DePaul reached the Sweet Sixteen last season and has appeared in 10 straight NCAA Tournaments.
BYU coach Jeff Judkins felt his team had been dealt a favorable matchup, however.
"I’ve watched them a lot. I have a lot of respect for the coach," Judkins said. "DePaul’s not a real quick, athletic team. They shoot the ball well; they execute well. And I think one thing our team does is if we can prepare them, they can take teams out of their offense."
DePaul is led by junior guard Anna Martin, who led the Big East with 19.1 points per game this season. As a team, the Blue Demons are one of the most dangerous 3-point-shooting teams in the nation, making 7.8 long-range shots per game.
The Cougars are coming off a strong performance in the WCC Tournament but also have had a weeklong layover. Balance is the key for BYU, which boasts five scorers who average at least nine points per game.
Steed is among the national leaders in assists, and senior forward Kristen Riley has come on strong lately, earning the last two WCC player of the month awards. Eaton has been a boost in her first year on the team and is the second-leading scorer on the roster.